The codings in one's beliefs influence one's choices, self restraint ( da in Sanskrit : self restraint and sharing) , Interactions and decisions
Speech, Words and Texts come from Mind ( within constraints of time, space, matter) that is external to one's spirit;
Feelings are from Spirit conscience and can be perceived / experienced without Words; ( for some, words are necessary to affect their Conscience; this is not so for all)
thus the importance of true Conscience Spirit energy (that is boundless and chief Influencer).